Why am I not pleased this necessarily mean male broke up with me?

Expensive Amy: I just obtained out of a 9-yr partnership with a guy I’m just now acknowledging was manipulative and imply. Unfortunately, he produced a ingesting problem all through our time together.

Columnist Amy Dickinson (Bill Hogan/Chicago Tribune) 

He broke issues off twice (from my needs), and I was the 1 who experienced to go out and get rid of my property and my dog, etcetera.

Immediately after staying apart this time, I started out to see some items I had dismissed in advance of due to the fact I cherished him so considerably.

He is emotionally abusive at periods, as we check out to different our merchandise and as I try out to purchase the household from him. He has said items like, “If you never fall this, I will take anything, and you will get absolutely nothing.” Or throwing it in my face that he’s happy we by no means bought married.

I begun therapy and have been going now for two yrs. All through that time, my therapist has tried using to manual me towards what is healthier, but I think she realized I wasn’t ready to listen to it. I was so in like.